Okayyy hun, this is very important so please listen carefully. No one, and I mean literally no one, likes boring sex. Healthy, long-term relationships are fundamentally founded on mutually enjoyable, orgasmic, fantastic and frequent sex — if your sex life is boring, chances are your relationship will be short-lived. I’m not saying this to be overdramatic in any way, shape or form; I’m simply trying to give you the cold, hard truth as plainly and explicitly as I possibly can.
Sex should be amazing on a night-to-night basis. It should make you cum so fucking hard that your body trembles and tingles, your mind loses all notion of time and space, and you forget all your stresses and worries and anxieties and find yourself encompassed in nothing but sheer, unadulterated electric pleasure. And the thing that makes it all the more beautiful? The thing that renders it one of the most brilliant and powerful experiences that humankind can enjoy? Sharing it with another person.
My advice is to simply let go of your reservations. If you’re finding sex boring, chances are so is she. And I don’t want to hear this nonsense about how the female sex drive is lower or how women just aren’t into sex. Bullshit. We fucking love sex. We especially love good sex. Take the reigns in the bedroom — be kinky, be spontaneous, be unpredictable, be adventurous. And don’t be selfish. She might not enjoy everything you’re into at first, but if you carefully stay attentive to her needs and ensure that she cums like a fucking freight train (preferably multiple times), trust me, she’ll grow to it. And your relationship will be all the better for it.